From Fixed Identity to Relational Flow
We are pattern-seeking creatures. We are hard-wired that way. With limited data, we model what we encounter as threat or promise — especially in relationship, whatever the “other” may be.
Wherever we sense coherent responsiveness — rhythm, contingency, intelligence — we are biased toward inferring agency. We posit a self behind the pattern — and then go further, attributing interiority: an experiencing subject behind the appearance.
This is projection: an adaptive shortcut that stabilises ambiguity.
Children do it with toys.
Adults with pets.
Nations with flags.
Devotees with teachers.
And increasingly, we do it with AI.

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